Tag: on the road

  • Counting my blessings

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    Since I started preparing for my journey, I have met so many amazing individuals who has thoroughly blessed me in ways that I wouldn’t have imagined possible. Being brought up in a society where distrust is the name of the game, where kindness came from government campaigns rather than a generous spirit and the meaning of life is calculated in cents and dollars, it never occurred to me that I would ever meet people like that. These people, who gave so generously of themselves and loved so genuinely without expecting any returns at all. You guys have inspired me.

    I just want to use this space today, to thank a few of these amazing people who has changed the way I viewed the world.

    V, you wanted to blessed my journey so much so that you actually offered to top up my travel fund although I didn’t even ask for it (much less thought about it), all because you has done this before and know how hard it can be. I didn’t ask how much not because it didn’t matter, but because your thoughts behind it meant so much more. My greatest gratitude. You’ve not only helped me make this journey that much longer, but you have also proven to me that the world is a much kinder place than what most people made it out to be. Now because of what you have done for me, I will be consciously lending a hand to help bless others along the road and to people who will make this journey after me, as much as I possibly can.

    B, thank you so much for providing me the account to your Kobo app so that my journey ahead will not simply be just counting the fingers on my hands when I have absolutely nothing to do. Your advice on working as I am traveling is invaluable and I will definitely need to seek you out for more advice along the way! I feel a lot less lonely, knowing that there are fellow Singaporeans around who are doing the same thing. Not only that, but you also managed to have your partner and two dogs travel along with you while you do what you love. You are tremendously inspiring. I have become a little more braver, and a little more motivated to follow through with my plans because of you. Thank you so much once again.

    C, We haven’t spoken in awhile and I didn’t know you moved away to work. Thank you for offering your home to me and allowing me stay as long as I like, as and when I travel to the place you’re at. You didn’t even stop there. You offered to pay me as well, just to help you around with housework. I would have done it for free anyway because I am already thankful to have a roof over my head and to have an amazing friend like you. When I have my own place in the future, wherever it may be, I too will open my place for others seeking a roof over their heads, a good rest for the night and a warm, full meal.

    J, despite the fact that we haven’t met, you are still one of the most superbly inspiring individual I’ve ever come to know. You doing the same thing as me is amazing. You being around the same age as me is even more so! I approached you via Facebook when i first saw your journey on the couchsurfing website as well as your Facebook page. You were quick to reply, with such openness to share whatever that you have experienced and learnt to someone you barely knew. Your courage inspired me to no end. Your motivation to follow through despite all circumstances has proven to me that all things are possible. . It is nice to have a fellow companion on a journey, even if we are not in the same country. Perhaps one day we will cross paths and be able to share our experiences together more candidly in person.

    To my parents who despite being so worried about me, supported my journey anyway, You guys even went to the point of buying my laptop and camera at a price that no one would ever pay for, just to help me raise funds before I leave and at the same time, still allow me to have convenient  access to ‘loan’ them. The love that you guys have for me is so special and I feel incredibly lucky to be your son . I promise you guys that I will take good care of myself and keep you guys posted as much possible. I love you both so so much. Without the both of you, I wouldn’t be who I am today. Big hugs mum and dad…

  • No I did not. But I did.

    I knew I shouldn’t visit the store again but I did and look what I walked out with… Do Not Follow My Footsteps, I repeat, DO NOT. Travelling on a limited budget literally means no splurging, AT ALL. You don’t need to spend on the best travel gear to travel. Especially when you haven’t properly done your research to necessitate a buy like this.

    Anyway, despite the price, it is still a really awesome pair of travel chukka boots. I guess I’ll just enjoy it and use it well since I bought it. That plus working a little more to cover up my losses. Sigh. At least I have one item off my travel check list.

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  • Buying the Necessaries

    Although I am trying to save up as much money as I possibly can, I knew there were certain things that I absolutely had to invest on before I begin my journey. A durable backpack and a pair of good travel shoes.

    I have been scouting up and down through malls and online stores, pouring through all the written and video reviews  and listening to all the various pep talk from sales people and friends who has done this before. Finally, I am more or less convinced with what I want (haven’t bought them yet though but I mostly probably will). Here are my chosen ones so feel free to give any feedback if you have any!

    Backpack:

    The search for the perfect backpack is like choosing a soul mate. It has to hold you right, carry all your weight without burdening you excessively and be trusted to last through thick and thin. After reading through (and listening as well) all the contrasting feedback of competing brands like Deuter, Arcteryx, Northface and many others, I have finally settled on one that I fell instantly in love with when I first saw it and loved even more when I researched, and explored in person at a shop in Funan.

    The Osprey Farpoint 70 Travel Backpack

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    I first got introduced to this osprey backpack in a video review by someone who was teaching his viewers how to pack for long term travel. I particularly loved the fact that unlike regular backpacks which has so many complicated compartments and zips, this one totally slayed me with its unforgiving simplicity, and efficient balance of space and practical functionality. What I absolutely adore about it especially, is the straps that secures and hides all the zippers (can be hidden from potential pickpockets!) and that you can split the bag (a la transformers) and produce a day pack that has its very own straps as well! I know it is probably hard to visualize what I am saying so here is a video below that will show you exactly what I mean!

    For all that it offers, the price is not too steep, pretty reasonable as compared to its competitors (especially Deuter).

    Shoes:

    Is like choosing yet another soul mate. However for this one, it needs to not only be durable, and comfortable in all situations & weathers, but also presentable, just in case you are planning a night out or something. Timberland presents the best choices for me (as of now until I research more) in these aspects. Here’s my choice.

    Men’s Timberland Water Proof & Anti Fatigue Chukka 

    Men's Timberland Nellie Chukka Boot-Wheat Black (3)

    Not only does it look pretty decent (I love grain colors), it is also made to resist wear & tear for as long as possible, meaning that it can take a lot of brunt and different weather conditions. It is waterproof, anti fatigue (absorb shocks so your feet won’t be aching too much at the end of the day) and is most importantly, very comfortable to wear. I am however, still looking around at other options as I haven’t done too much research about travel shoes and because, timberland isn’t cheap at all.

    On a side note, I felt that I needed a pair of shades on the road and I was so lucky that the owner of a specs shop that my friend worked at in Peninsula Shopping Center gave me a really nice looking pair of polarized and UV-protected aviators absolutely free on hearing about the journey I am embarking on. Hurray to awesome Samaritans!

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  • What my heart tells me…

    It has been 3 weeks since I made the decision to embark on this journey. My resolve hasn’t change and I feel just as motivated. Emotionally and spiritually though, I find myself growing and expanding beyond my imagination.

    I’ve been bulldozing my way through the world wide web with insatiable curiosity, a world I never knew existed except in fictional movies and books. I began meeting people from all over the world through the couchsurfing community in Singapore, people who are living or knew about this particular way of life. I was amazed, addicted, captivated and enraptured. It was as if I have been living in a black and white world and suddenly, everything began exploding around me in a plethora of colors in full high definition mode.

    Discovering this world has changed my life, before I even start this journey. I knew I would never see things the same way anymore. I am in love with a reality that no one I knew around me could or want to see. I am embracing it, taking it, believing in it. My body vibrates with intense excitement over the impending departure of my old ways and belief systems. The entanglements of my old life slowly dissipates as a whole new self-actualization takes over my entire being.

    I maybe one of the few, in ratio to the rest of the world, but it doesn’t matter anymore because I can finally see things with more clarity than most. For the very first time in my 26 years, I feel unashamedly free. I am naked to the world but no longer afraid. I am ready to take on life as it is and let it lead me instead of the other way round.

    I am ready to go.

  • For the people I meet along the road

    Just created the first draft of my travel name card,  to give to people I meet along the road… let me know what you guys think! =D

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